Archive for December, 2017

crush

December 19, 2017

The day I met you my rubric for a man changed. At least in the physical sense. You became the yard stick I used subconsciously on every single man I met since. Every time you looked at me I blushed. I didn’t even attempt using words in your presence for years. Then one day at a party you picked me up. You hoisted me from the ground with ease. My breath caught, and I prayed you didn’t notice. I was so embarrassed. Later that night you kissed me. Twice. After that I tried speaking to you. I couldn’t pull full sentences together coherently. I couldn’t tell if you noticed or not. I didn’t try often. Then one day a few years later you became my coach. I saw you every single day. Words came a little easier by the day. But mostly I didn’t need them. You have a way of using enough for at least two. I don’t mind this. I’m a good listener. I found that about 85% of the conversation we were having I could hang with easily. The last 15%, tho, really scare me. I don’t know that we have much in common. Besides the time we share at the gym. I over analyze the shit out of that 15%. I’ve put myself out there two times. Both times you were dating someone. I probably won’t do that again. This whole situation is so different for me. I usually have no problem approaching my crushes, making myself known, and typically making it happen. I don’t scare easily, and I’m not shy about my feelings. But with you I can’t bring myself to do it in my normal bold fashion. You scare me. Where do my words go when I’m around you?

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Dear Sir T

December 15, 2017

I know… I said a lot of good things about you in here… but this isn’t your resume. If you want to use me as a reference, have them give me a call.

life coach

December 13, 2017

I met a woman at a networking event that is a life coach. She is so energetic and lively. Her presence is HUGE.  I love this. She is addicting to be around. I’m borderline obsessed.

We met to hang out to get to know each other because our line of work is so similar. She asked if I could help her with a new program that she wanted to try out. I JUMPED on it. I believe in being coached. I KNOW it works. And I know how valuable it is. Hell, this is why i am a health coach. And i’m currently getting certified to be a life coach.

Anyway, after a session with her about building my business and working on my relationship with money she asked if I would be interested in exchanging services.

HELL YES! So now I am her health coach and she is my business coach. I could not be more excited about this. I am learning so much from her. Not to mention any accountability on my business is invaluable.

PUMPED!

my current scene :-/

December 13, 2017

So… where am I in the bdsm scene?

My daddy/dom friggin eloped.

I’m sad mostly because I found out about this thru fucking facebook. Ugh!

I was hardly playing with him lately because of his current relationship. Him and his girlfriend opened up their relationship for him to have me (specifically just me) as a play partner as long as she knew as little as possible about when/where/details of it all. So basically he had to sneak around to make it happen… and he wasn’t good at it. And that was a hard role to play. I hated feeling like the other woman. HATED IT. So we weren’t playing very often. 😦

Then he eloped. And I’m pissed. He wants to continue, but I just don’t like this. It doesn’t feel good. And if it doesn’t feel good…. then, why do it?

So, how’s my bdsm life? Non fucking existent.

I did get back on fetlife… but there is no one impressive at all. I’ve chatted with one guy for a bit… and I MIGHT meet him now that daddy is out of the equation.

Trey… again

December 13, 2017

Me and trey decided to give the friends with benefits another go. The problem last time was that he wanted more… and I didn’t.

I love hanging with trey. I cannot emphasize this enough! And the sex is REALLY  good. Like, next level good… not sure how to explain it. We just fit so well in bed. And he touches me so well.

He’s so funny. And fun. We have a great time together.

I know what you are wondering here. Why not keep him???!

There is just that thing that is missing. I know me. I know that I need someone that will keep my attention even when someone with big biceps walks into a room. It sounds superficial… I just know that trey can’t keep my attention. It has nothing to do with him and his looks. Its just something is missing. That thing that makes someone more than a friend… ya know? The non-definable shit. Whatever. IDK I’m frustrated too, ok?

SO we decided to give it a go again.

And it was amazing. It really was. Sex was even better. Hanging out was even better. I even invited him to join me with some friends and stuff to hang out in public. Wha????

Then he started sighing while looking at me after sex. And i had a feeling that he was holding back them feels. He tried his damnedest to not say anything. But eventually he asked me to re-evaluate our relationship. He felt we were getting closer and that things might have changed with me. But… If i’m honest… while i do believe we did get closer, i don’t see our future any different than I saw it before.

😦 I had to break it off with him. I was just hurting him. And i don’t want to do that. I miss him tho. I like when he’s in my life. Wish we could find a better middle ground that wouldn’t make me the most selfish person on the planet.

I hope he finds someone awesome soon so i don’t feel tempted to pull him back in.